Absolutely the best decision you can make for yourself, for you beloved incarnated or criminally behaving loved one, for your children and your parents, for your grandchildren, for your community is this: live victoriously in Christ Jesus.
Keep the oil in your own lamps full.
Build friendships with people of hope and faith—generous people who will share their experience and perspective with you tenderly and honestly.
Read the Bible: you will be amazed -- from God promising to sing to you, to stars singing praises to God at the time the foundations of the world were laid, to poetry that makes the blues sound lighthearted, to the sweetest, most tender words God speaks to us.
You can be the light to your loved ones. You can live hope and love to them. You can live Christ to them one day at a time.
Absolutely the best decision you can make is this: live victoriously in Christ Jesus.
A Few Amazing Bible Verses:
Job 38: 6-7
Psalm 6, 32, 38, 51, 102, 130, 143
Matthew 11: 29-30, Psalm 109, Roman's 8:31, Luke 19:10, Isaiah 43:1, Isaiah 66: 13